20/12/17 | A troubled youth's take on love


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Disclaimer
Before I start, you need to know that I'm no love expert. I'm merely a young adult trying to get by life in all of its catastrophe and what you will be reading about are all based on personal thoughts, experiences, and a pinch of pure emotions. And yes, I'm vividly aware that there are billions & billions who are having it worse, but cut me some slack. Let me use some big unnecessary words to make up for my small, insignificant being. Now, back to the topic. 

What is love?
Well, internet defines it as such; 

I don't know about you but I have zero objections (other than the fact that this word can also be used to non-living objects that you have a weird, quirky fetish over, OR have sentimental values attached to it). 

The type of love I'll be discussing here refers to loving a person. Not your motherfatherbrothersisteruncleauntiegrandmothergrandfather, but loving the person you ought to create a family with and spend the rest of your limited life with.

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What is it about it that makes us so weak yet oh so powerful?
It's the one thing in the world which can make us (or me, at least) the happiest, but it's also the only thing that can hurt you the most. 

When do we know when to keep and save the love or let it go?
How do we realise that we can't continue loving the person because of the pain that it comes with?
Is the pain you're going through really part & parcel of loving someone, or has it gone overboard?
When do you know when it's too much? 

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Have you ever fallen inlove? 
I trust that you're intellectual enough to know the difference between love, admiration, and lust. Anything else I missed out? 

Is it possible to truly fall in love more than once? 
Personally, I don't think I have the means to do so. Maybe I'm just that weak of a person, or maybe I'm just that strong of a lover. Who knows? I'm not the one to judge and neither are you. 

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When you fall in love with someone, it's like... magic.
Real cheesy coming from me but that's the closest word I can relate it to. 
This magical feeling has so much power to either make or break you. 
It's really scary, and it's definitely a risk if you ask me. 
But if you feel like you found the one, and if it's mutual, then go for it.
I don't know if I believe in soulmates or not, but when I'm with the person I love, it's just... different. It's like the whole world revolves around you two and nothing can change that. Nothing can break you both apart other than yourselves. 


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