society and judgements

Me: I am ugly.
Society: Eeew what an attention seeker!
Me: I think i look good today.
Society: Eeew she’s so full of herself!
Me: *pretends to be someone you’re not and tries to please everyone.*
Society: Just be yourself!
Me: *being myself and standing up for myself*
Society: Stop being such a bitch!
Me: *commits suicide*
Society: aww that’s too bad. She was such a great person. I hope she’s happy at wherever she is now. R.I.P.

"Society's standards are fucked up. If you're reserved and quiet, you're an emo. If you're open and expressive, you're an attention seeker. If you're a virgin by 16, you're doing something wrong. If you lose it by 16, you're a whore. If you don't compliment yourself, you're begging for compliments. If you compliment yourself, you're full of yourself. If you're unique, you're weird. If you're normal, you're boring. It's hard to find yourself in a world centered around perfection, when in reality, imperfection is what defines us."

We're humans. We have feelings, opinions, beliefs, and we all judge. Deny it as much as you can- but that's the truth. Humans judge. But what makes us different is based on HOW we judge. Do you judge from appearance or from what you hear from others? If you do- then too bad!
Example of simple judgements:
scenario: you're walking down an alley, saw a guy wearing black hoodie sitting down on the floor. You'll probably have thoughts in your mind about what the person.. whether he's a bad guy or something. 
See my point? It's natural for us to judge people based on what they wear/how they look.. But we shall never assume too much, because as they say, 'never read a book by its cover.' Who knows? The 'hooded guy' might be a person who have a smile that could light up the whole town. WHO KNOWS, RIGHT?
We don't know anything about the person, but we still assume things- which is totally normal and acceptable. So my point is, take a good look at yourself first before you start judging.

We always blame society. But we are society. Some people are good and some are just fucking unreasonable.
For those who are part of the 'fucking unreasonable' group of people, a little piece of advice: Stop being so full of yourselves and try to think about others for once.
Just remember that nobody is perfect and so are you. Don't go around judging people and spreading utter crap about them because of little mistakes they make.

And some of you might complain that you don't like this and that person, but just shut your twat and deal with it- please? It's not like everyone likes you. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE HATERS. You will never be able to please everyone. Stop complaining, bitching, and spreading crap about that person so much. Give yourself a break and bitch about yourself with yourself. THINK ABOUT YOUR IMPERFECTIONS. Think about all your mistakes. And most importantly.. think about how that person would feel. Imagine yourself in their shoes. WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF SOME RANDOM BITCH STARTS SPREADING FALSE RUMOURS/SECRETS ABOUT YOU? WOULD YOU?
For those people who are going through this hardships and still standing up, i truly salute you. Just hang on there and ignore everyone/everything who gets in your way. But if you think that you're doing something wrong which explains all the hatred towards you, why not try to do some self-reflection and maybe change your ways abit? But it's okay if you don't want to. It's your life anyway. Everything happens for a reason- be it accident or not.

'Fucked up society'? Hah, bitch please. We are society. Take a good look in the mirror and change yourself in order to make a better 'society'.

carla

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